Archive for January, 2009

“Cooking by the Book” - A Lil’ Bigger Mix by Mastgrr

Wednesday, January 28th, 2009

My good friend, SEO guru, Jeremy Lim just sent me a video that I should not even make available for young kids. I am surely going to hell for this, but it’s so damn funny and catchy. Yes children, if you click play, you will surely lose 1:19 minutes of your life, and like me, maybe more because even after the initial “WTF!” you’ll still feel a sudden urge to watch it over and over and over again…well for me at least!

Now why can’t all our children shows be like this?! Catchy and educational!

A Compliment Like No Others

Wednesday, January 28th, 2009

So I was blankly staring at my monitor today, fighting every last bit of urge to take my boots off, wipe all the shit off my desk and doze off in fetal position on my oak wood desk. I think I was dazedly looking at a post about the theory of the Law of Attraction when a voice broke through my momentary retardation.


“Hey Vic, I’m taking off for the day, geez you’re always dressed so stylishly fashionable, you encourage me to dress and look better, you know that?” comes the voice of one the Directors of the company I work for. I look up seeing him towering over my desk in his denim jeans, expensive suit jacket and tie. He’s in his early 40’s, blond hair, blue eyes with a face that looks like it belongs to a guy in his mid 30’s. We’ll call him Mr Branson, since with facial hair he looks like a young version of Richard Branson with bigger eyes. Mr Branson is a happy-go-lucky guy, with a booming laugh that rocks the office every time he’s on the phone…I honestly wouldn’t be able to tell the difference between Mr Branson’s laugh or an actual earthquake.

So I look up sort of in a state of confusion since he just broke through my mindless state of “I’m bored as fuck, but I’m trying to look busy.” I politely thanked him and we talked a bit more about fashion before he took off for the day. It was 1:30pm.


So after he left I did a quick review of my wardrobe this week:


the-nude-baretMonday:
-Black turtleneck
-Red doll-cut cashmere sweater
-Black high waisted trousers
-Pointy Stiletto heels
-A long gold loopy chain

Tuesday:
-Black turtle neck
-A short beige jacket that cinched at the waist and flared out at the bottom (very Jackie O, Paris fashion, Katie Holmes)
-A long silver chain with a flat hoop that says “Live your Life”
-Black skinny denims
-Black leather mid-length riding boots with a 2 inch thick heel
-A nude colored knit baret


Of course I finished off both looks with the usual diamond studs, white ceramic watch and a neutral bracelet


I don’t think it’s anything WOWing…although our city lacks any sort of fashion besides jeans and a top from the ONLY store that all the girls will shop from. I think it’s the baret…I mean the only people that wear hats are guys (caps) and the alternative kids that want to rebel against society. But to have a guy say that to me is such a compliment!


Okay I’m done rolling around in my own vanity now.

NEXT!

A Glance At Victoria’s Weekly Schedule

Wednesday, January 28th, 2009

January 27-February 1st


[27] Tuesday
4pm - Off work
6pm- Start of a New Year dinner with Family
8pm -Girls night out < postponed due to snow >

[28] Wednesday
4pm - Off work
6pm - Girls night out, bbt run to the far west

[29] Thursday
4pm - Off work
6pm - Bogart’s Chophouse & Bar with my little sister
or
6pm - Date with my friend Vivica Foxy Lady

[30] Friday
4pm- TGIF, Happy Hour Starts!
7pm - Dinner plans with Le Post Secondary Gang

[31] Saturday
Morning - Laundry, Clean bath tub
Afternoon -Grocery shopping for Potluck Party
5pm - Potluck/Rock Band Party

[1] Sunday
10am - Volunteer at local Buddhist temple
1pm - Attend Sunday service
2pm - Shopping/Dinner with N whose in Town

*N wants to take me boarding, he says he’s totally cool with teaching me. Hmm I might just take him up on that offer…

Finally Able to Sleep!

Tuesday, January 27th, 2009

I finally had some undisturbed, REM sleep. It feels so good after not sleeping for 2+ weeks. Plauged by exhaustion today, going to sleep early for once. =D So no more blogging.

Industry Cocktail Parties

Tuesday, January 27th, 2009

So a client of ours showed up at the office today to drop off some documents for me. Nice guy really, in his 30’s, distinct taste for plaid, an infectious smile with an easy going, “got to love him” personality. We chit chatted for a bit as he updated me on all the local industry events. There’s a huge convention going on right now and about 1000-2000 big honchos in the industry are here schmoozing away. Extravagantly lavish parties are popping up all over the city with all the wine and hors d’oeuvres you can get your slimy little fingers on.


Anyways by the time I was showing him out to the elevators, he made a note that I should be attending some of these parties and ease up a little considering it is Monday and a little wine never hurt anybody. I smiled politely as he invited me to a 6 o’clock cocktail party at one of the city’s 5 star hotels with an amazing view of the harbor.


With the sun shining, it’s hard not to be slightly tempted by the prospect of good wine and the idea that I’m not stuck in traffic like those other commuting losers. I naturally picked up my phone and called Em, my party girl. She doesn’t pick up. Shit. She’s probably still sleeping or she’s at work. It’s 4pm on a Monday…Chinese New Year as well as Australia Day. I leave her a text. I call up my other friend Leely, a girl I tell everything to. I will talk more about her tomorrow. So Leely’s taking some night course and was obligated to go and suddenly I didn’t feel like going anymore without my 2 crazy go-to girls, as well, I was suddenly hit with exhaustion. And now here I am, sitting at home on a Monday night, ready for an early retirement to bed.


What’s on tomorrow’s agenda? Work, family dinner then meeting up with the girls for the usual Girls Night Out at The Lounge.

Cheap Moments with Victoria - Re-using Stamps

Sunday, January 25th, 2009

I have been known for being overly frugal, maybe it’s the Asian side in me. Yes I can spend $400 on a pair of jeans or go into a store and buy a random $200 bag without looking if I like it or not because I needed one for that night and it matched my outfit, but I have to be a cheap fuck about everything else. I’m weird okay? Sue me!


So I was just firing a birthday card off for my Father via snail mail. I went to look up postage rates and I see that it’s $1.65, okay no big deal I have a little cannister of stamps (used and new). I see that the old, used ones are all $0.45, the new ones are $0.51. Of course I realize that those damn money suckers have done this purposely so we’d be spending more than necessary on stamps. So being cheap as I am I put 3 $0.51 stamps on and the $0.45 stamps I have are 2 from an envelope that I got, but lucky me, the postal office forgot to stamp it, meaning I can re-use it and save myself $0.06! (if I had chosen to use another $0.51 stamp. So yay me!


I took scissors and cut along the stamp, then scotch taped the stamp on. Of course my Father as well as any postal office employee is going to see what a cheapskate I really am, but who cares! I saved myself $0.51! (if I had used a new stamp)


Don’t hate me, we are going through rough economic times and desperate times calls for desperate measures!

Optimism Creates a Better World

Sunday, January 25th, 2009

So I sat in on a lecture today by Living Buddha Lian Sheng. He spoke about the current economic and environmental issues and how the world seems to be in dark times and then mentioned something that I thought rang true to me. He spoke about how the world is perceived by our observations. From what I learned in a Cultural and Heritage course I took years ago, the professor said humans observed by our 5 senses (sight, smell, sound, taste, and touch). The information (data) is then uploaded into our brains, where past knowledge, experiences and current emotional state will help determine the conclusions of your thoughts and perceptions on the matter at hand. So in other words, we came out of the womb to be masters of being biased bitches. (woop tee!)

Example:
[1 ] Rover the dog who just got hit by a car would mean a devastating day for Bob and Jane whose had Rover since he was a pup. It would be an empathetic moment for Susan, the dog lover once she hears about it. But a person who does not know Rover, Bob or Jane, personally would not give a second thought.

Hey what’s that popular phrase/concept called? Oh right Not In My Own Backyard. Hmm…

[ 2 ] Bob brings Indian cuisine home for him and an expecting Jane for dinner. Bob was craving butter chicken with a side of garlic naan. Once Jane sees it she runs to the bathroom puking her bloody guts out because expecting mothers are more sensitive to smell, as well, 15 years ago, Jane went to India on vacation, ate something bad and had the runs for 2 weeks. Jane comes back grouchy because the house smells of Indian food now, she wants to gag for the 2nd time and she’s hungry, she feels her night is ruined.

Depending on a person’s experience or emotional state at the time, perceived matters can effect people in huge ways.


So back to what Living Buddha Lian Sheng was saying, before I went off on my “what I thought to have been intelligent” tangent, Optimism creates a better world. No it’s not going to end world poverty or stop natural disasters, but it will help a person sleep better, relax a bit, and maybe lessen that thought of suicide because he/she is one paycheck from living on the streets. Lian Sheng said as humans, we tend to see peoples’ faults. When a thought arises we’re usually judgmental and negative [due to our insecurities] and our surroundings is created by our attitude towards life. He asked why we tend to see peoples’ faults and never their positive traits. “There is no one in this world that is perfect, we come to this world as an example of imperfection.” Such a simple sentence and yet so true. He said, “I might be a living Buddha, but I am still human, unlike the buddhist statues behind me, I am not gold, I may wear clothes of golden colors, but under these clothes I am not gold. I am imperfect just like you.”


It’s funny, seeing someone so full of wisdom and with so much caliber to just say “hey I’m human and I’m imperfect, but I still strive to be better.” It makes me bow my head in shame at how arrogant a person I am, when all I’ve done is live 20+ years, eating, sleeping, and wasting money on useless materialistic items, when I can be a bit more optimistic, less judgmental and better myself. The world is how we make it to be, so is life. Seriously, why don’t we be a little more optimistic, a little less judgmental and live a happier life? I mean when I’m depressed, it doesn’t matter if the sun is shining, the birds are singing, it means I’m friggin’ depressed and it’s raining in my own damn world! So selfish and yet so true for all of us. People are not perfect, the world is not perfect, and we’re all going to end up the same in the end; dead. So why do we still waste precious time dwelling in our own misery about financial matters, relationships, fights with friends, when the inevitability of death will take all that away? (Okay someone please remind me to fish this blog out and read this when I’m in one of my selfish depressed states, ya k thanks!)


Living Buddha Lian Sheng, spoke of how his best Chinese New Year was a night when he pulled out a thatched mat and sat outside his house watching the stars and the moon. He said it was the best because his mindset was at ease and he was relaxed and happy. He claims that it doesn’t have to be the most elaborate, luxurious celebrations, it could be the simplest, if you are content, than every moment will be the best.


He encouraged us to begin creating a better world for ourselves.

Peoples’ E-Bay Obsessions. Geez.

Sunday, January 25th, 2009

So as of this morning sometime around 3am, I threw myself AT the E-Bay bandwagon. Yes, you read correctly, not on, but at. When it comes to matters of the world wide web, I have given myself some strict guidelines:

-No MySpace
-No E-bay
-No Pay pal
-No WoW
-No dancing half naked/naked for people on webcam
-No taking/sending nude pictures of myself


Okay those were the only ones that I could think of at the top of my head just now. So last night, I managed to break 2 of those 6 rules listed. I’ll let you guess, and NO it’s not the last 2!


Okay people, so why did I finally get an E-bay & Paypal account after so many years of living in the old world? Yes I just told you the” oh-so hard to figure out” answer.


I needed to buy something. Not just anything, there’s this white and red cashmere herringbone scarf that I can’t find anywhere else via the Interwebs. I did see one at some swanky shopping center in Hong Kong, but I was too lazy then to get it and now it hit me that I MUST get it to match my red and white herringbone, leather/wool gloves with the cute little bow on back. Oh god please kill me as I sound more and more like an annoying cast member in The Devil Wears Prada. I digress. So yada yada, I registered, I have $0 in my Paypal account but who cares! I’m in a bidding war. And not with just anyone, but with some person whose got over 30 items that they’re bidding for, ranging from girly accessories to dresses of all sorts. I mean honestly, do people seriously stay at home, bid on 50 items and watch it like they watch the stock market? Why in the name of all that is cuddly and furry do that?!

I guess I will seriously never understand people. I did have a friend who use to buy jeans off E-bay and probably 5 out of the 30 pairs she’ll get that month would be fake. Mmm Rock n’ Republicans FTW!!11


It’s Saturday night and I’m only at home because I have to get up early tomorrow for Chinese New Year celebrations. I won’t be home until Monday night, so no blogging until late Monday night I guess.

Lets Talk Men - Suit Trends 2009

Saturday, January 24th, 2009

Over the past couple of years, I have developed a strong fascination with fashion and trends, as well as an ever-growing umbrella of visions. It started with women’s fashion, but I found myself lured into the world of men’s fashion, influenced by my fashion-savvy friend Rainer, who spent close to $12K on shoes at John Lobb on our last shopping trip (but we’ll save that story for another blog post). Lets move on without being too verbose shall we?


Slim Fit Suits

Slim Fit Suits



Recently, slim-fit suits have been all the rage, appearing on every runway from Brioni to CoSTUME National and Alexander McQueen as well as in every department store from Macy’s to The Bay. The celebration of the male silhouette has been welcomed with open arms as we bid farewell to the old-fashioned, boxy, baggy look that Uncle Bob has been sporting at every family reunion since 1985. It is a common misconception that the slim-fit style of clothing only works for lanky or athletically-built men. On the contrary, slim-fit is actually a style in cutting. Unlike most styles which leave a larger fabric allowance, the slim-fit has a more narrow cut, leaving only a 1-2″ leeway. This cut creates a more body-contouring, tapered look. In other words, slim-fit is not only for the select few with Brad Pitt bodies out there - it also works for the general populace of men with regular bodies. It is simply a matter of finding the right fit. Even places like Mr. Big & Tall have started carrying pants in slimmer styles.


This slim-fit trend marks the revival of the awareness and appreciation of the male physique, demonstrating that men can primp and look good as well. It is no longer “feminine” or homosexual” for the “manly” men to pay attention to their looks. However, in 2009, with the economic downturn, a sense of traditional masculinity has been renewed, upholding the symbolization of the “hunters,” as well as the concept of “survival of the fittest,” finally ending the Manorexic/Chris Crocker look. The classic looks that emulate masculinity are brought back by infusing the styles of the male silhouette with classic styles and tailoring that incorporate the emphasis of  broad shoulders, slim waist, slim trousers look (think James Bond). Say “goodbye” to the Samantha Ronson boys out there and “hello” to V-Shaped figures, where cuts and styles are made to highlight the good and cheat the bad. These styles will last through 2009/2010.


Style and Cut to look out for in the new year:


[1] The Double Breasted
double-breasted-suits
A style popular in the late 1930’s to the 1950’s that made a comeback during the late 80’s up until the demise of alternative rock culture in the 90’s and boybands and Britney Spears were coming to an MTV near you.

1. 1-3 buttons on the jacket/blazer - anymore and you’re making a fashion faux pas
2. Shoulders should be fitted - no 80’s shoulder pads. American styles end at the shoulder bone while English styles peak out a little past the shoulders.
3. Most of the new Double Breasted styles you will see in the upcoming season are “Kent” style, which is the slimmest of the DB cuts. The “Kent” cut will give the create a slimming effect to the waist and also add height due the the extension of the longer lapel to the waist (following the traditional English suits).

My Recommendations:
Paul Smith, J. Lindberg

Recommendations by Fashion Gurus:
Ralph Lauren, Hugo Boss, Tom Ford, Roberto Cavalli


[2] Three-Piece Suits:


3-piece-suits


Images of a man by the name of say…Robert James, in his gold spectacles, holding a pocket watch and smoking a pipe might come to mind when the 3-piece suit is mentioned. A short scene with Robert Redford and Clint Eastwood sharing champagne with Liza Minneli and Beegees in the background might even meander into your conscious thoughts. Yes. The 3-Piece Suit is back! Not that it was ever out of style, but the trend itself did hibernate for a while, popping up from time to time. It was the social norm for men to dress in the classic 3-piece suits up until WWII before the words “casual & denim” were introduced to the general public. Of course these suits came back in fury around the 70’s to the toddler years of the 80’s. And now it seems like it’s creeping back into the spotlight. I mean, when Shlum Bum Trucker Hat-wearing Ashton is spotted in this damn suit, either the world is really ending or some fashion revolution is happening folks!


Key Points (to looking the part instead of looking like you’re ready to sink with the Titanic):
-It’s all about the waistcoat/vest. Think Bourgeois. Conservative, moderate, conventional. Stick to like shades and palettes for your other pieces. For the adventurous types…go as far as pinstripes on your vest. No 80’s craziness.
-Stick to like fabrics as well with the suits
-Find a deeper V neck in the waistcoat. It will elongate the body and create a slimmer waist; it is also more versatile when paired with other shirts, with or without the jacket.


The 3 Styles (that the internet and magazines are whoring out):


Traditional:
-traditional contrasts (think black and white, white collared shirt, diagonal lines from tie, horizontal pinstripes)
-thin tie
-thin, subtle pinstripes


Aristocratic:
-suit and shirt is color coordinated (ex. dark plum pinstriped suit, bold purple colored tie that coordinates with suit, light collared shirt with subtle purple hues)


Avant:
-simple
-subtle shades of grey
-add a pointed lapel (not suggested if you’re a bit bigger - stick to clean cut lines and subtle horizontal pinstripes to elongate the body)


My Recommendations:
Valentino, Ralph Lauren Purple Label, Yves Saint Laurent


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Patterns of 2009

Patterns are back this year! They are timeless - always stylish even when not recognized as so. This year, it is all about playing up the optical illusion, and giving the plain suit a little spice.


patterns

Buddha Calls

Friday, January 23rd, 2009

I came across an old but funny clip on this car forum called REVscene.net. Let me set you up for the clip, a suspicious Indian woman calls the radio segment called “Super Snake” asking the DJ to prank her husband into confessing the secret he seems to be hiding. The story unfolds to some HILARIOUS dialogue between the husband and wife, with the DJ laughing uncontrollably behind.

Highlights:
-Whose Nikki?!
-You don’t use your mouth!! American girls use their mouths
-Thank you for showing me the American ways of loving
-25% of the time, you’re on the periodical.
-There is someone on the line that sounds somewhat like my wife
-You are my favorite buddha call
-It so happens I love Beyonce too